“施比受更有福”。施,是给的起,就是有能力给予,是一种物质上的给予之外,也可以是一种精神上的鼓励。当别人需要你一个肯定的眼神,一个鼓励的掌声,对于当时的他都是一种无限的温暖。而当我们在给予的同时,自己也会感受到无限的喜悦,这种快乐更是能久久不散。 well... got this from a chinese compo book... found it very very meaningful, true and beautiful... Giving from the heart is what is most important, no matter what you gave... as it can really really spread warmth can't it? Does doing good deeds beget rewards then? I don't think so... why should people do good deeds for the sake of receiving something in return? that really defeats the purpose isn't it? if people think they won't recieve anything in return... believe me... they won't even bother to think twice about doing good deeds... therefore, one should not have the notion of getting something back in return for the good they've done...